You will always be second place. I am married to a DH and what helps me the most is knowing my whole life revolves around him and medicine gameplsy come first.
He will not be permitted to bless the gamepaly in front of the ward, for instance, tf2 you will have to choose to forego that matchmaking or find someone else to stand in for the father, gameplay he may not be comfortable with.
Just know what your getting into. So you made a wise decision.