She still lives fvents her hometown though. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it.
You should certainly still date even if you are not looking for a marriage partner. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing.
Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life.