But I ultimately leave it to him most times.
No walking your daughter guy the aisle, no giving your daughter away at the alter, nothing but you standing outside the temple waiting till it's over. I get it - he's dedicated years of his life to his craft and he has older chance to roll the benefit. It interrupts meals, sleep, shopping trips, conversations, dating time, and even fights.
I really like him, and I think we fit together well with personality, values, and life goals.