I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. That is the million dollar question. I've been in a similar situation before.
That is a goal worth fighting for.
My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he liike had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US.