The first time that happened could have been viewed as a warning sticker, and been your cue to exit stage right.
This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared.
I would never ever choose a different path.
Just profilw across this site today after trying to find ways to help me cope with dating a Doctor. I met this girl a while ago and we really hit it off.