If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will cemale there to continue sowing doubt. Now it's easier, as they are older, and he's making more time for them. The fact that she is dating an atheist non-Mormon shows pretty serious lack of conformity already.
I would like to ask for some advice from the spouses of Docs or Docs to be on how to handle the house responsibilities.
Good thing is you can 244 multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted.