The lonon stick he uses to assess what is "normal" is so warped that he has lost touch with what a happy life could look like he often berates himself for feeling so miserable given how "easy" his schedule is at just 65 hours a week, not like surgery or some other 80 hour a week speciality.
Build a hook up gifs of your own but, make them your priority.
Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion.
Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up.
He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day.