For sure, the line dividing the two is blurry, and every concept deserves qualification. I had a lot of fun polling my friends and family on what they considered vanilla sex. The question usually garners a nervous laugh and confusion, then an hour long conversation ensues, allowing me to spy on their sex life.
My favorite vanilla was from my dad. I interrupted him watching the football game in order to ask.
He tore his eyes gets from the screen and looked at me blankly. At least my short list generously included basic sex toys. But let me expand on that. Fingering with anal or two fingers is vanilla. Fingering with all five fingers, i.